PJ-TJ. •. OP, make sure you 1) hire lawyer who works in trusts and estates, and 2) make sure executor and trustee ppwk is filed ASAP. It sounds like the father would not be above interceding and filing incorrect ppwk with a court, seeking to name himself executor and trustee so he can take the steps he outlined.Some years I've spent $20k in repairs and upkeep. $5.5k seems like a good average across my like 6 years in my house. That would be $2,750 owed in on average. Congrats, you've either broken even or owe more. In my scenario someone would owe in another $851 and get nothing back in this "equity" building time.Your sister turned a financial decision into an emotional decision and that is always a bad idea. She is now asking you to bail her out so she can continue making her poor financial decisions for emotional reasons. NTA. your sister needs to sell the house and buy something she can afford.Your SIL need to figure out her own budget and wedding - if all the wedding dressed are too expensive then she either needs to get realistic or she can ask her own mother about sewing a dress. I would suggest going LC with her because she doesn't respect you. Keep your dress as an heirloom for your own family.AITA for selling an heirloom of my ex-husband’s family. When I (36F) married my ex-husband (40M), my MIL gave me a diamond ring that was in her family for several generations, as a wedding gift. We divorced after 7 years, primarily because he decided he no longer wanted children (we’d both wanted them when we got married).AITA for kicking out my family. On mobile. So this may be an easy one. I already feel bad but in the same instance I feel justified. I just served my aunt and uncle with a Trespass Notice. Background: My aunt and uncle came to stay with me in September. They approached my mom in early August looking to stay somewhere for a little til they could ...OP needs someway to pay for their wedding...00:00 Intro00:09 AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding?02:29 Commentary06:08 Tea T...So when I found out my parents, baby sister and baby brother were living out of their car. I decided to work as a stripper. I made good money and with that money I was able to house my family, pay off my parents debt,my brothers debt and put my younger siblings through college/university.I 30F am estranged from my dad John. He had an affair when I was 9 and kicked me and my mom out the house when his girlfriend got pregnant with my half sister Jade 21F. My mom fell apart after the divorce and became an alcoholic. She was declared an unfit parent when I was 11, and I lived with my aunt and cousins.TikTok video from aita (@aitaonreddit_): “AITA for wanting to sell our family home to a stranger even though my half sister will buy it from me to keep it in the family? …brennus83. AITA for selling a house I purchased from family. Not the A-hole. Last spring I purchased a house from my moms cousin Dave. His father had recently passed, so when I found out they were selling the house I expressed interest. They sold the house to me for roughly 20k less than they were expecting to get from a private sale.NTA. You're a grown-ass woman and can do whatever you want with your possessions. Your stepbrother and mother just assumed that you would give it to him rather than sell it or dispose of it in some other way. That was presumptuous and rude. It sounds like you and your dad had a great relationship.Just be calm and say, “You always break my things when borrowing them and don’t offer to repair or replace the items. I will no longer loan you my things.”. Repeat as necessary in a calm voice. They can get mad all they want, they’re still in the wrong. wwolffstarr.Teen Sparks Drama After Selling Inherited Family Home Because Her Pregnant SIL Ate Her Dinner. by Amelia Mavis Christnot. Maria Ziegler/Unsplash. Blended families aren’t always the Brady Bunch. In some cases it’s more like Cinderella and her sisters. A 19-year-old woman struggled with the family dynamics between herself, her mother and her ...As this was going down, my GF told her mom that I was selling my car for $300. She got all hyped up and said they needed a new car for their farm and if I was going to just get rid of it to a random for $300, then I should just sell it to her for the $300 instead. I thought sure whatever. I don’t care who gets the car as long as I get my $300 ...TikTok video from aita (@aitaonreddit_): “AITA for wanting to sell our family home to a stranger even though my half sister will buy it from me to keep it in the family? …AITA for selling my home that I was allowing my daughter to stay in even though she made upgrades to it #reddit #redditstories #aita #redditstory #dadhumor #...I’m in my late 20s, and have been living with my maternal grandmother since I was 18, due to a completely unlivable situation at home (physical, emotional, verbal and financial abuse). As she started to decline with age, I started to need to be home much more often to keep her safe, as she didn’t qualify for care takers covered by insurance ...So I’m taking other measures and now the rest of the family thinks I’m an asshole for blocking my uncle with lawyers and selling a family home. But it's not a "family home." It's your property, and calling it a "family home" is just a linguistic trick for your uncle to pick your pocket. And it sounds like you've given him 30 days to take ...AITA For Telling All Of My Friends And Family Why My Vaction Home Limits Now Unless They Rent It. Author admin Posted on February 15, 2024 February 15, 2024 Categories AITA Post navigation. Previous Previous post: AITA For Being My GF Said. Next Next post: AITAH For Telling My Wife That The Way She Dressed For Girls …I understand you have regrets and some guilt about the past, but I hold no resentment towards you and I forgive you. Bringing you back into my life would introduce complications I am not willing to face for my own good and that of my family. I simply can not give you what you seek. I want no further contact.Mom stays out of your room and does not get a key. If anyone breaks these rules, you move toward immediate eviction proceedings. Step 2: speak with a lawyer and become better educated in eviction law. Be prepared to serve 30 day notice to your brother and SIL, and mom if necessary. Step 3: brother needs a plan to move out.I understand you have regrets and some guilt about the past, but I hold no resentment towards you and I forgive you. Bringing you back into my life would introduce complications I am not willing to face for my own good and that of my family. I simply can not give you what you seek. I want no further contact.So there are 5 grandkids in total. My dad was never much of a girls guy. He always got along with the boys more than the girls. Him and my son were very close. He has left the car to my son in his will. The rest of the grandkids got $4,000 each. The vehicle is …Whether you’re dreaming of building a barndominium or wondering how to repurpose shipping containers into your own signature domicile, you’ll need a well-designed plan. Look into t...AITA for telling extended family that my brother was an abusive piece of shit and taking his ex wife’s side in the divorce . My brother was married to Katrina for 8 years. He has a 10 year old daughter from a one night stand. Bio mom is not in the picture. Katrina is the only mom my niece, Elise, has ever known. She became a stay at home mom when Elise …I would sell the house and I wouldn't think twice about her she had all that money that could have lasted her for years to come and she went through it all. That is on her. You do what's best for your wife and your children.Yup, when it comes to selling heirlooms and sentimental items family has right of first refusal at a reasonable price. YTA. Reply reply. dr-sparkle. •• Edited. A reasonable price for a used grand piano could easily be $100,000, depending on the piano. A "low end" could be over $10,000 used.My late husband (passed away in 2013) was a classic car guy. He bought and sold them since he was a teenager as a hobby. After he passed away, I kept his favorite car. My brother in law would come by and maintain it for us and sometimes take it to shows. My son would often go with his uncle to shows and when my son got his license he was ...Yup, when it comes to selling heirlooms and sentimental items family has right of first refusal at a reasonable price. YTA. Reply reply. dr-sparkle. •• Edited. A reasonable price for a used grand piano could easily be $100,000, depending on the piano. A "low end" could be over $10,000 used.Aita for refusing to share my vacation home with my in-laws for six months after they sold their house without consulting me? #redditaita #redditpost #RedditAITA #reels #aitaredditTake the car to a local mechanic to get checked out. Mechanics sometimes charge a fee to check out a car and they will ensure you aren't buying a lemon as long as they have no money in the game. As in, don't buy a car from the mechanic, pay the mechanic to check out a car before you buy it. 1. firetothetrees.This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read this before contacting the mod team. Obligatory on mobile and not used to Reddit so sorry for any formatting issues. I (23F) live in a rural village with my parents and younger ...So there are 5 grandkids in total. My dad was never much of a girls guy. He always got along with the boys more than the girls. Him and my son were very close. He has left the car to my son in his will. The rest of the grandkids got $4,000 each. The vehicle is valued at over $70,000.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Fake account and fake names since a bunch of friends and family have my actual account. Back in April my friends Jessie (27F), Ashley (27F), Laura (28F) and I (28F) all went to see Taylor Swift. It was a great girls night and when she announced more North American dates over the summer for 2024 we made plans to go again.Your sister turned a financial decision into an emotional decision and that is always a bad idea. She is now asking you to bail her out so she can continue making her poor financial decisions for emotional reasons. NTA. your sister needs to sell the house and buy something she can afford.AITA for selling my mothers Wedding dress ... In the same way that I hope my daughter wouldn't sell my dress without discussion with other family members who would maybe like to use it. ... You may have had the legal right to sell the dress, but you should have talked to your family first. A wedding dress often carries a great deal of meaning.brennus83. AITA for selling a house I purchased from family. Not the A-hole. Last spring I purchased a house from my moms cousin Dave. His father had recently passed, so when I found out they were selling the house I expressed interest. They sold the house to me for roughly 20k less than they were expecting to get from a private sale.So, after my husband told me that, I got up and left the house. I went to the grocery store on the corner and grabbed a copy of our area's apartment guide went back home and handed it to him. He asked if I were serious. I told him I still felt the same way as I did 3 years ago. He said he didn't think that was fair considering the extenuating ...Dusty Thunder covers r/AITA (and other Reddit stories) and provides reactions to each story.https://linktr.ee/dustythunderhttps://www.dusty-thunder.com/AITA ...AITA here? EDIT: ok seems people think it was wrong, but my son only got the truck after schooling and my daughter has not finished school yet. I have not thought of her graduation gift yet. But the car is only listed and I will think about it and reconsider. EDIT2: Ok i will let her keep it and de-list it for now.I (33F) have a husband Rick (34M) and we have two daughters May (11F) and Vicky (8F). They are my whole world, and I love my family so much. I just have a secret I kept from Rick. Few months before I met Rick. I have a son Weston (14M) who I had, when I was 19. He is being raised by my best friend Lorie (36F) and her mother Annie (56F).Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Buying the house for 10% of value, knowing my family could use the money from the sale of the houseAITA For Telling My In Laws That If They Want A Gr… AITA For Getting A Tattoo For My Sister; AITA For Leaving The Village While Pregnant; AITA For My Son For Causing A Scene In School; AITA For Not Agreeing To Share A Hotel Room In Veg…And don't worry; sometimes it really does take another perspective to realize how bad things are, especially when the decline has been gradual. It's what you do when presented with the situation for what it is that's important. Good for you for taking back control of your life and happiness! :) 2. nohorsethrow.Present_Carrot3245. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling the house my stepdaughter feels entitled to? I (50f) and my husband (60m) have been married over 25 years. I have one stepdaughter (30) and we have two sons together 18 and 21. My stepdaughter and I have always gotten along. Her father divorced her mother 27 years ago due to infidelity on her part.AITA for telling my parents I was going to sell the property we all live on. Not the A-hole. A little bit of a backstory back in 2018 , my dad came up to me with a proposition that he would help me and my husband buy a house with his retirement money and then when he got his final check, he would pay it off as long as we bought the house and ...All of the this. OP you haven't compromised a bit. You are putting your bio family's needs and wishes above your wife and her family who —NEWSFLASH—are about to become your family too. It's clear to me that you're not ready to get married when you're prioritizing your biological family over your spouse.AITA for kicking out my family. On mobile. So this may be an easy one. I already feel bad but in the same instance I feel justified. I just served my aunt and uncle with a Trespass Notice. Background: My aunt and uncle came to stay with me in September. They approached my mom in early August looking to stay somewhere for a little til they could ...I have to agree here. I don't think there's anything wrong with setting the boundaries in the home that you are comfortable with but I also don't think this friend is intentionally crossing boundaries. I am so happy when my friends are comfortable enough to treat my space like their home, minus the walking into my bedroom part lol.My wife was happy and the atmosphere wasn't suffocating. Everyone remarked how happy we were. Kayla wanted to come back for Thanksgiving. When my wife heard, she threw up. she said she was too weak to deal with Kayla anymore. I told my wife I'd arrange for a short hotel stay for the four days Kayla would be home. She was grateful.Selling your home can be a stressful experience, but it doesn’t have to be. With the right preparation and strategy, you can sell your home quickly and easily. Here are some tips t...Yup, when it comes to selling heirlooms and sentimental items family has right of first refusal at a reasonable price. YTA. Reply reply. dr-sparkle. •• Edited. A reasonable price for a used grand piano could easily be $100,000, depending on the piano. A "low end" could be over $10,000 used.AITA for not wanting to sell my house and give money back to in-laws. Not the A-hole. My wife and I purchased a lovely home summer 2022 and did so the usual way with roughly 20% down and a 30-yr mortgage. Financially, we were surviving and making our monthly payments; everything was OK. My wife's non-American (Non US-based) parents, …Against my fiancee's advice I sent them an itemized bill for everything I paid for myself that they freely gave my brother and sister. I said if they wanted to be a part of my life they had to ante up. They said that they cannot afford that because they are in debt still from helping my siblings out. I laughed at that and said I hoped that I ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling things off of our farm that we bought 2 years ago from family. Not the A-hole. My boyfriend and I purchased my grandfathers 40 acre farm 2 years ago from family for $400,000 ($10,000 an acre, a little high for 2018 farm ground prices but the sentimental value was there). In the purchase agreement, it specifically ...My mom used to tell my sisters and me don't start a fight if you can't finish it. Meaning don't start something if you can't take it. Your mom started the fight and you finished it, she just couldn't take what she started. Edit: my sisters and I were always provoking each other and complaining about the retaliation after it.Dec 12, 2020 · AITA for selling my family home because my pregnant sil ate my dinner - YouTube. Story Dude. 6.49K subscribers. Subscribed. 45. 1.8K views 3 years ago. We now also have a podcast,...His parents are paying about 60% of the wedding. Our parents are paying 30% Stella and Jon paying for the rest themselves. The biggest caveat is that they must be married in Jon's family's church, full mass with communion. The family is on board because this is going to be a very big wedding.Rents have drastically increased, I'm talking over doubled since I was on my own last. I can't afford anything. The cheapest 1 bedrooms are 1800 a month. Bachelor's …MembersOnline. •. Historical-Joke9732. AITA for selling my house since my roommates thought I was ripping them off. Not the A-hole. I own (have a massive mortgage on) a house in a HCOL city. I have four roommates. I have the basement suite and the upstairs bis rented to one couple and two single people. They know I own the house and all of ...Last week, Tyler announced that his family was "coming to visit". He gave me no space to refuse and zero time to process. I found it extremely weird that 6 people would take a 3-hour flight and had "no idea" of where they would be staying. We had a huge argument, and I was hurt to see that he just slipped into his old habits.Over the last couple of years, my family (i.e. my mother and sister) has been under financial duress and have been pleading to me to sell my house because I "don't need it". And they're technically right: I don't utilize this space. It's just my dog and I. I haven't set foot in some rooms in months. They say with the sale of the house, I can ...We have 2 daughters, oldest has started. The other is getting to the age where it will happen soon. My youngest is a boy. In our home, we are open about it. Don't get the wrong idea, we aren't nudists lol. But I want my kids to know the natural things a human body does, is nothing to be ashamed of. Speak freely, ask questions, get help if you ...1 I booked a hotel room while visiting my wife's family because they insisted I sleep on the couch instead of sharing a bed with her. 2 I might be the asshole because her family is now upset and is refusing to allow me back into the house, and this is causing problems between my wife and her parents.Business, Economics, and Finance. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. CryptoWhen it comes to selling your home quickly and efficiently, one powerful tool that you should not overlook is MLS listings. One of the primary advantages of listing your home on ML...Selling your home can be a stressful experience, but it doesn’t have to be. With the right preparation and strategy, you can sell your home quickly and easily. Here are some tips t...Apart-Tradition-2235. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling my stethoscope instead of giving it back to the family? Not the A-hole. I'm (20sF) from an immigrant family in the US. There's a stereotype among members of my community that only a handful of jobs that are acceptable to have (i.e. doctor, lawyer, engineer).AITA for telling extended family that my brother was an abusive piece of shit and taking his ex wife’s side in the divorce . My brother was married to Katrina for 8 years. He has a 10 year old daughter from a one night stand. Bio mom is not in the picture. Katrina is the only mom my niece, Elise, has ever known. She became a stay at home mom when Elise …Mom stays out of your room and does not get a key. If anyone breaks these rules, you move toward immediate eviction proceedings. Step 2: speak with a lawyer and become better educated in eviction law. Be prepared to serve 30 day notice to your brother and SIL, and mom if necessary. Step 3: brother needs a plan to move out.ADMIN. AITA For selling my house which would cause my in-laws to be homeless. Not the A-hole. My wife was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago. She fought as hard as she could for as long as she could, but she sadly passed away 6-months ago. We never had kids and both were very career focused. After my wife's diagnosis, she wanted her parents to ...So I’m at a bit of a crossroad today. I’m thinking of selling the car I bought for my mom. I love my mom a lot and I got her a new Lexus in 2021. I’m not rich, and honestly it’s not easy paying for it. I’m 27f and my mom is 60, and I have a sibling 37f who lives with me, but I don’t recognize because honestly I hate her.AITAH for not giving my family a $1 for selling the family home. Years ago, my grandparents helped my mother get a house for stability. As we grew up, we moved out, leaving the house vacant due to my mother's husband's disinterest. In 2016, I asked for the house, but my mother refused, citing issues with my children's father.All the women in my wife's family ended up being very short (4'10"-5'1"), so they all wear "rare" but similar sizes, so it's always worked out. With a 70/30 gender split and the only men in the family being myself, my brother in law, and my sons from a previous relationship, this swap meet is the MAIN event. They make it a whole show about it.I was on the original post. The kid's grandfather did leave money for upkeep, repairs -- everything. Expenses for it are covered. The grandmother is still alive and she's managing it. The grandfather clearly meant for the grandson to have it and he did have the foresight to take care of everything - quite possibly because he knew what kind of person his daughter became.ADMIN MOD. AITA for offering to sell my house to my son and not my daughter? Asshole. My husband and I have 4 kids, Henry (35m), Lisa (33f), Elizabeth (30f), and Shawn (28m). We bought a 6 bed/7 bath house for next to nothing before Henry was born. Now that all of our kids have moved out, we decided to sell our house and buy a condo on the beach.This means that if you sell your home for a gain of less than $250,000 (or $500,000 if married, filing jointly, AITA For Selling My Family Home Because My Pregnant Sis, If selling your home is on your to-do list, you may be wondering if you should cal, marvelous_maisie. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling my car without telling my family? No A-holes here. Alright so I (F21) hav, I (47M) inherited a property from my father 11 years ago. For the past five years I’ve be, Posted on Jan 18, 2022. This Woman Sold Her Late Husband's Car To Pay H, AITA for selling my own home and not giving family busine, My family is from South Asia but we live in the States. My p, Zealousideal_Cat958. ADMIN MOD. AITA for calling off my , ADMIN MOD. AITA for refusing to let my partners brother i, ADMIN. 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