First I would like to say- I am not a jealous person. I always tease him when I know someone is flirting or attracted to him. My husband is an attractive guy but he never thought so because he was quiet and didn’t date a lot growing up. I teased him and pointed out other girls would flirt with him to raise his confidence. My husband also fairly large. We are both working on this since we’re trying again, and we want to be healthy as possible. My husband mentioned tonight that a couple acquaintances of ours broke up; they had had sexual issues in the past and basically broke up because the boyfriend wasn’t attracted to her anymore.A step-mom's decision to favor one of her step-children has been backed online, after she confessed to purposely spend more time with one child. The step-mom, posting as aitaoldestsd, took to ...Or at least, to me, it feels like the same kind of affection I'd give a my child because in a way, supporting someone with depression can be akin to caring for a child. You constantly give love and affection without expecting it in return. You just love them. No matter how many times they scream, poop or throw up on you, you know.11 votes, 13 comments. Tl;dr I don’t think he’s attracted to me anymore and it’s frustrating that he holds me to a different standard than himself… A stepmom turned to Reddit 's " AITA " forum to find out who was in the wrong in an argument between herself and her husband David — and it became quickly clear whose side everyone was on ...I have a backup plan. Before my bf started dating me seriously he knew this. Now that he is my fiance, he wants me to get rid of it. I'm not doing it and I don't understand why I should. The bad thing is- my husband's brother is moving to our city soon and will live close to us. (He is single and never says anything inappropriate to me, he's just nice to me btw) My husband is good friends with him so he'll come over for sure. I'm thinking I'll just have a rule for myself: I will never be around my husband's brother alone.Accomplished-Face-48 • 2 yr. ago. My guess is your lack of attraction is mostly due to your resentment surrounding this. It's about the sex, but it's not about the sex. Unless he is willing to show some effort to satisfy your desire for intimacy, this relationship is doomed.I know he's not going to cheat. Plus most of these people are on the tv because it's weird to say that about people you know irl, and I know it is in fact not possible for my husband to run off and marry Amy from Brooklyn 99 because she's fictional. But some people are VERY bothered by it and it's a repeated issue in their relationships.1. [deleted] • 1 yr. ago. You can't help who you find physically attractive. You've said you wouldn't do anything with her, and that's the important thing. You've done absolutely nothing wrong, so don't feel bad. I understand feeling awkward though, just the thought that you're attracted to your stepmom is probably unsettling for you.And I have always had a lot of difficulty saying no to people much to my own detriment. But I’m extremely unhappy right now. Every time I look at him, I resent him and I know it’s not fair to him or myself to continue this relationship. He deserves someone who is attracted to him. What do I do?I am attracted to my sister in law in an odd way. Maybe just a crush, but I am not sure. I had feelings for her the past few months, and she seemed like she was flirting towards me. So maybe a week ago I texted her wanting to talk about somethings. I wanted to try to get a feel for where I stood to her. She is hard to read a lot of times.4 awards I know my stepmother is attracted to my husband, and I laughed with my father about it when he confronted her, and I've never been happier. My stepmom has always made herself the center of attention since she entered our lives when I was 12. Press J to jump to the feed. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts One of the hardest parts about being a stepmom is the need to keep quiet about the tough stuff and how it's affecting you. If you've got to let it out, limit your thoughts to a very close, trusted friend, or even better, tell it to your counselor or therapist. Which brings us to number three. 3. Find a counselor or therapist, even if you don't ...I am starting to resent my husband so much, even more now that I work night shift and he works daytime. I work from 10pm-7am and I have to rush home to get the kids up and ready for school and literally fight and argue with my husband about him getting up and getting ready for work.Statistically, men become less attracted to a woman the more they are around them. Additionally, the older a man gets the wider the age gap he is interested in. So a man at 30 would perhaps only date to 25 but a man at 40 would date to 30. A man at 50 would date to 30. Lastly, a man who gets divorced will generally have a 2nd wife younger than ...I Can't Stand My Stepmom (LONG) Okay so my parents separated when I was 11. My mom liked this guy (pretty much cheated on my dad) and my dad was so upset (obviously). Anyways my dad always told us that him and mama just had problems and weren't meant to be. She always said that it was her fault. But they never fought. They just separated.Not attracted to my husband anymore. Hi everyone, I’m new to this Reddit thing and found this community. I’m in a dead bedroom situation. I’m a HL (34F) and my husband is a HL (36M) . We have been married for 10 years , but we have been together for 11 years. We have a son who’s 10 years old. My husband is a great father and he has all ...Attracted to my step-mother. Long story short, my parents split. And my current step-mom is super attractive. I've had fantasies of her and i want to know if this is a normal thing. She has even shown flirty like behavior to me. I get super-hard whenever she walks past me in the house and i have to hide my giant erection (lol) We got married at 19/20 and we have been through a lot together. We now have a home a bunch of cars, a bunch of kids, great careers, and solid plans for the future. We don’t always work well together but when we do, we do. If you know what I mean. We have had our up and down like any couple and we are cut in a season of starting over emotionally.First marriage for both of us. From the very first date my husband has spoken about girls in their teens or early 20s whom he finds attractive. This topic still comes up multiple times a week. He’s also very flirty with such people. He has a VERY inflated ego and thinks he “looks young for his age” (he doesn’t) and often thinks young ...I know he’s very attracted to me. I’m not vain. For some reason, he’s very attracted to me physically and gets turned on very easily by me. I just wish I could say the same. I’m tired of having all of my sexual fulfillment met through fantasies. I’m not fulfilled at all!Normal people would 100% be upset at their husband telling them their friend had better features than them. I have scars on my back and stomach. I know they're not awesome. If my husband said my friend had a more attractive stomach or back than me it would devastate me and those aren't even "sexual" zones.Look, I'm 5'4 and keep myself at 110 lbs because that's what my husband prefers. I lift heavy, spend an hour at the gym every day, count calories by weighing my food, stick with protein and greens (with a date-night meal that includes grains/carbs twice a week), and go to bed a little hungry every night. It kinda sucks.First I would like to say- I am not a jealous person. I always tease him when I know someone is flirting or attracted to him. My husband is an attractive guy but he never thought so because he was quiet and didn’t date a lot growing up. I teased him and pointed out other girls would flirt with him to raise his confidence.If the body change alone causes a lack of attraction, that is sad, but really rare. However, the changes in personality can be quite quick and dramatic. And the changes can affect either of partners. Changes in hormones, workload, stress, lack of sleep and other can cause personality changes or depression. I was on the other side of the fence struggling with my attraction to my husband. There are lot of things this could mean for you guys, but I will share what it meant for my husband and I. Full disclosure, I will tell you that I don't know exactly what happened or I felt like I was no longer "attracted" to my husband.1. [deleted] • 1 yr. ago. You can't help who you find physically attractive. You've said you wouldn't do anything with her, and that's the important thing. You've done absolutely nothing wrong, so don't feel bad. I understand feeling awkward though, just the thought that you're attracted to your stepmom is probably unsettling for you.More On: incest. A Michigan mom who fell in love with her biological son says a rare “genetic” phenomenon is responsible for their red-hot romance. Kim West, 57, got pregnant as a teenager ...I agree, that is an important part of a relationship, especially when you're young. The height of selfishness is to not care at all whether your partner finds you attractive, despite what some will tell you about it. Do it slow, do it healthy, …Yes Ofocurse it’s so important. I would never marry someone I'm not physically attracted to. So yes, I am very physically attracted to my husband. My physical attraction to my spouse grew over time. If she told me she was never physically attracted to me I’d be a bit wounded. Not attracted to perfect long-time partner anymore. Looking for advice: I love and respect my serious partner of five years, but I’m not sure that I want to be in a serious relationship anymore. He is kind, loving, humble, and fun to be around, but the problem is, I see him as more of my best friend than as my partner.My partner E caught my eye from across the room at a diversity workshop, I found her to be strikingly beautiful and I could tell she was really smart and passionate. We didn’t speak at all at the workshop (there were about 70 people there) but I ran into her and some others as I was leaving and was invited out to drinks.I know a lot of men that are extremely attracted to pregnant women. My husband could barely keep his hands off of me when I was pregnant (it was kind of annoying to be honest but also sweet. He made me feel sexy when I felt anything but).My father and my stepmother (41F) have been dating for the past ~8 years. Recently, they’ve been arguing more frequently and decided to take some time apart. So my father moved out of their place and got his own apartment. Now, here comes the weird thing. Ever since they decided to “take a break” my stepmother has been calling me and ... Disinterest in quality time, lack of physical touch, no interest in romance, no interest in sex, disengaged in general. Etc. ETA: Doesn't try at all to impress you or get your attention, as it is not desired. Yep, definitely getting this from my bf at the moment & it fucking blows.I’m not attracted to my husband anymore. As salamu alaikum. My husband 26M and I 19F are having some problems. The main problem was intimacy. Never been enjoyable for me and has always felt like a dreadful chore. He asked me why I treat it like a chore and I got annoyed. So, I was honest and said that he has never made it enjoyable for me and ...My partner E caught my eye from across the room at a diversity workshop, I found her to be strikingly beautiful and I could tell she was really smart and passionate. We didn’t speak at all at the workshop (there were about 70 people there) but I ran into her and some others as I was leaving and was invited out to drinks.None of this is a reflection on you. All of what you describe is a reflection of his poor judgment and his lack of boundaries. It was all very disrespectful to you and your friend. I think at this point you both need to seek out individual counseling before or in addition to couples counseling.19 votes, 66 comments. I honestly don't know how this happened. We've been married four years and have been very happy. I consider him my best… Animals and Pets Anime Art Cars and Motor Vehicles Crafts and DIY Culture, Race, and Ethnicity Ethics and Philosophy Fashion Food and Drink History Hobbies Law Learning and Education Military Movies …I know my stepmother is attracted to my husband, and I laughed with my father about it when he confronted her, and I've never been happier. My stepmom has always made herself the center of attention since she entered our lives when I was 12. And my lack of attraction is coming from both right now. But I’ve tried to be attracted to my husband when he’s presenting femininely-I’ve tried really hard but I’m not. I fucking hate it I don’t know what to do I feel like a failed wife. I was so so so so attracted to him before and now it’s just this complete nothingness.Disinterest in quality time, lack of physical touch, no interest in romance, no interest in sex, disengaged in general. Etc. ETA: Doesn't try at all to impress you or get your attention, as it is not desired. Yep, definitely getting this from my bf at the moment & it fucking blows. My husband still has all the features that originally made him attractive to me - great hair, kind eyes, a nice butt, an inquisitive mind, and a generous nature. I'm still incredibly attracted to him. If anything, I'm more attracted to him now than when we were younger. I KNOW that he knows how to get me going and that also makes him attractive ...As per your sexual urges, you can find a better and appropriate way for satisfying these. It doesn't make sense to shock your mother and then try to control the damage to her self respect and motherhood. Your own guilt will become a cross for you for ever. Meet a counsellor to learn how to handle your sexual problems.TL;DR: Learned my husband cheated on me with my own mother two days before we got married. Our entire marriage has been sitting on that lie. Update - 17 November 2021. My actual update will be brief, but I first want to thoroughly address what you guys said on my first post. I read every single comment. May 9, 2022 · More On: incest. A Michigan mom who fell in love with her biological son says a rare “genetic” phenomenon is responsible for their red-hot romance. Kim West, 57, got pregnant as a teenager ... Linda Blair. Thu 13 Oct 2005 08.07 EDT. My husband and I are 57, our daughter is 28. I am very attracted to my son-in-law, 31, and have been since I met him three years ago. My heart races when I ...Me and my husband. He's an amazing person, but I wasn't crazy attracted to him at the start. The more we hung out and got to know each other the sexier he became. In my opinion looks really don't count for anything in a long term relationship. Eventually even a sexy person looks average when you get close to them.Shutterstock. Another one of the seldom-discussed realities of being a step-parent is "the forced relationship between the step-parent and the child," says Martinez. "Most relationships form organically, and some step-parents try and fast-pace the relationship almost as a way to catch up with the other two parents." 8.tl;dr: Friend's mum being forward and flirty out of sight of my friend, I've been flirting back. We've got eachother's numbers and we flirt in texts as well. She invited me round for 'coffee' while my friend is away with his dad. I really want to do it but I don't want to sabotage my friendship. Edit: Spelling4 awards I know my stepmother is attracted to my husband, and I laughed with my father about it when he confronted her, and I've never been happier. My stepmom has …He’s pretty guarded about talking about sex. We’ve gained some weight with age and stress but we are getting in shape but I still feel like maybe he just isn’t attracted to me. We have sex sometimes when he’s super in the mood but I almost feel like I’m just there so he takes advantage of it not that he’s really want me personally.A stepmother took to Reddit to pose one big question: did she do wrong by her stepkids and partner? Recently, she explained , they all traveled together for the first …1. [deleted] • 1 yr. ago. You can't help who you find physically attractive. You've said you wouldn't do anything with her, and that's the important thing. You've done absolutely nothing wrong, so don't feel bad. I understand feeling awkward though, just the thought that you're attracted to your stepmom is probably unsettling for you.Feb 11 10 Reader Loyal Wife For Now writes, I have had a crush on my husband’s best friend for years, really since the beginning of dating him. I always …In a single instant all my current perceptions of love, marriage and friendship were gone. That night with a woman who wasn't my wife, I was guilty of flirtation, guilty of physical affection, and ...Just like the title says, my girlfriend of 6 months is attracted to my dad. They first met about 2 months into our relationship when she came over for dinner. They seemed to get along pretty well although my dad isn't a very talkative guy. Then two weeks later me, my girlfriend and my dad went on his boat for a weekend.My fiancé is a great guy and we have a wonderful relationship. He is really amazing and Treats me amazingly... it’s just that I can tell he is attracted to her even though I know with every ounce of my being he would never act on it. when my sister in law is around she is always wearing these tiny shorts and bending over in front of him.My husband and I didn't visit a counselor until we'd been married eight years, which was a huge mistake. I went into the first session thinking I was a horrible …I dated my mother as a teenager. So I just need to get this off my chest. When I was 15, my mother was insanely jealous of my girlfriend. Like, insanely jealous. And one day she sat me down and she told me, "I wish you loved me the way you loved her. I wish you did the things for me that you do for her. We could have a good relationship if only ...I think this is pretty normal, I have several friends that I know want to fuck my partner and a few friends whose partners I am very attracted to. Hot people are hot. Wanting to fuck your sexy friends is just part of having sexy friends. So first, stop beating yourself up about being attracted to someone who is attractive.Before i manged to get away, he almost managed to pull my shorts off. Puzzed, dazed, and just confused, i went into the other room, to hear him yelling stuff like "Please, i know you'd love a little a head" and "i just wanna try it with an adult". I stayed in the other room till my son got back, and things went back to normal.Help. : r/relationships. Me [32M] not attracted to my pregnant [6 Mo] wife [31F]. Help. I don't know why but pregnancy has always been a bit repulsive and revolting to me. I don't like being around pregnant women. It has been this way for a while now. However, this pregnancy is 100% planned and we are both looking forward to being parents and ...by januarysdaughter My son loves his stepmother, so I'm going to try to destroy their relationship! r/AmItheAsshole • 1 yr. ago • u/januarysdaughter AITA for not letting my son see my husband's new wife? My ex husband and I have been divorced for more that 2 years now.Ideally you don't want to make your self-confidence dependent on your husband's libido or attraction, even though it may feel like the two are linked, because that can have just as much to do with what's going on with him as well as the chemistry in your sex life. 40. level 2. · 1 yr. ago.It sounds like you are having intrusive thoughts. If you're horrified and disgusted by what you're thinking, you're not likely to act on it. This is a form of anxiety, probably brought on by what you went through as a child. Real child molesters think that their feelings are normal, natural, and reciprocated.my husband is attracted to my friend. My (28F) husband (32m) and I just spent the weekend adventuring with a new friend I made (32F) we will call her amber. As a little background my husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 4 of them, we have never been in an open relationship and we have discussed that I would be ...Disinterest in quality time, lack of physical touch, no interest in romance, no interest in sex, disengaged in general. Etc. ETA: Doesn't try at all to impress you or get your attention, as it is not desired. Yep, definitely getting this from my bf at the moment & it fucking blows. I know my stepmother is attracted to my husband, and I laughed with my father about it when he confronted her, and I've never been happier. My stepmom has always made herself the center of attention since she entered our lives when I was 12. Jul 17, 2007 · I'm a 35-year old stepmom and mother of a 5-year-old daughter. I find myself attracted to my 17-year-old stepson and, more worrisome, I think he is attracted to me. My wife was significantly older than me, and my stepdaughter is only five years younger than I am. This past weekend we were getting ready to have dinner, and she told me she was starting to have ...Contempt. The fact you feel ur better and above him gives u a sense of entitlement to trash him and hold his "cheating" over him. To hold something over someone who has apologised to you and tried to work with you in moving on is a disservice to you and ur husband. If you haven't gotten over it u have to leave him.It was benign, but still against the rules. He clicked on his profile and what he found was shocking. I don’t know if my son knew it, I didn’t, but you can see a Redditor’s activity if you click on their name. And WOW was he an active Redditor. He was commenting like crazy — dozens of times a day, all over the place.11 Apr 2023 ... A post on Reddit's Wedding Attire Approval page has revealed how a stepmother, believed to be from the US, wants to wear a champagne-colored ...My fiancé is a great guy and we have a wonderful relationship. He is really amazing and Treats me amazingly... it’s just that I can tell he is attracted to her even though I know with every ounce of my being he would never act on it. when my sister in law is around she is always wearing these tiny shorts and bending over in front of him.You are totally right about that! I know she gets all her validation from men finding her hot. And she’s always been competitive with me so having my man find her hot is the ultimate win for her. I doubt she even does it because she’s interested it’s all just a subtleIt’s harsh to hear but your husband isn’t understanding how terrible this situation really is. Honestly, incredibly tough situation. May Allah give you strength and help your marriage. Masha Allah and alhamdulilah you love him, not being attracted to him is extremely reasonable given the circumstances.I posted last summer about struggles with my husband of 5 years, our longest dry spell being 9 months. I felt unattractive and undesirable, and wanted to have sex more often, but he was happy to never have sex again (aside from how that would affect me). I wanted to feel like a sex Goddess again. Reddit advised me all kinds of things, from ...Salam I have a little issue. My husband alhamdullilah is a very good person who shows me a lot of affection. He never yells at me, takes good care of me and is overall an amazing husband. I’m just not attracted to him sexually. He is good looking for sure but he doesn’t really take care of his body. He’s not overweight or anything, it’s ...I always thought my husband (34) had an attraction to his step mom (48). I had previously posted on reddit about a year ago about him staring at her ass, trying to look up her …Changes in hormones, workload, stress, lack of sleep and other can cause personality changes or depression. Sometimes it is not even personality change, it is a new face of the partner that surfaces as result of a new situation, a face that you never seen before, and can cause loss of attraction.I [22M] am in love with my best friend's mother [47F ... - RedditFollowing are some insights into step moms which may surprise you. 1) We get jealous. When I moved in with my husband 15 years ago, I didn't have any biological children of my own. He had five. And he had full custody. This meant that I, self centered 29 year old that I was, a woman used to being in one on one relationships, was now in a one ...I'm attracted to my partner, therefore other people can be attracted to my partner The other people act different towards my partner than other people. Flirty, playful, more touchy-feely, almost exclusive interest in talking to them compared to everyone else, etc. You can never be 100% sure but there's definitely signsA step-mom's decision to favor one of her step-children has been back, Jun 21, 2011 · The common take on tensions between stepmo, My boyfriend isn’t attracted to me anymore. My boyfriend [23 m] and I [22 F] , Seeing it laid out in front of you might drive the point home on an emotional level. It will also, First I would like to say- I am not a jealous person. I always tease him when I know some, I dated my mother as a teenager. So I just need to get this off my chest. When, If my husband finds another woman beautiful, I can say, “Well she doesn’t have my sense , No, not at all. 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