My niece and nephew are 1 and 4 years old. I struggle to interact with them, I just freeze up and can't really say anything. I'm generally like this with everyone, people have to initiate conversation with me first for me to respond and in these situations I can mask okay, but not for long periods of time. As kids generally need you to approach ...AITA for leaving my niece and nephew stranded on an island because I was high? My family owns some cabins on a lake that we go to during the summer, some family members also use them to hunt during the fall. One of the cabins has been in the family for many generations and is on an island, with reliable electricity but has running water and it ...Teacher making a big deal or it, then doubling down and also refusing to give directions for the assignment in time to actually allow you to help your niece complete the assignment is a major breach of niece's right to education. In short, yes, teacher got herself in trouble. You did right by your niece. Reply. Award.HOWEVER, apparently, my cousin has this “very important piano recital” on my graduation day, and she absolutely wanted both my parents there along with HERS. I thought my parents would at least attend my college graduation, but nooooo. Apparently, their own niece’s piano recital is more important than their own daughter’s graduation. My ...AITA for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left? “I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean.OP's niece who he adopted and brought into his home asked to leave and go live with her Uncle. He didn't pawn her off, he obliged with her request. You are making OP out to be something he is not and making OP think he did a bad job. This niece was the one threatening and wanting to leave in order to hurt the OP.ADMIN MOD. AITA for suggesting we leave my 4yo niece home when we go to Disney World? Asshole. My sister went to Disney World with her husband and two daughters...let's call them Milly and Mara. Milly and Mara are 7 and 4yo respectively. They had so much fun my sister asked if the two of us could go for my birthday in a few months.OP's cousin has on and off taken care her daughter (OP's niece) in between prison and disappearing. The niece is screwed up because her mum has been vacant and she's getting pushed between relatives. That's the easy road to why the niece is screwed up. Really the cousin is to blame for having a child she wasn't capable of looking after.My aunt remained seated and my cousin asked me to calm down and drink some water but I grabbed my stuff and as I was getting ready, I told my sister she was getting 0 dollars for her dream wedding dress then I walked out. I heard louder commotion as I walked and my dad and cousin followed me outside trying to talk but I asked to be left alone.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter she was being a brat after she made a scene when my 5 year old niece blew out her birthday candles.Discover a Collection of aita for admitting my parents and niece at Temu. From fashion to home decor, handmade crafts, beauty items, chic clothes, shoes, and more, brand new products you love are just a tap away.My niece (16F) has been working for a year and saving so that she can buy a car when she gets her P's. She does driving lessons every chance she gets as well as drives with family members when ever possible. When she started working she opened a bank account and had her mother on the account (39F).It's not a matter of "numerous valuable items". Depending on the Rolex's and how many were taken we're talking about $5,000-$40,000 which is a serious felony. Some Rolex's go for a couple thousand but some go for over $20,000. What her niece and accomplices did is prison time felony law breaking even for first time offenders.ADMIN MOD. AITA for ‘clearly’ favoring my nephew over my niece? Not the A-hole. My brother (43m) has 2 kids, my niece Miley (17f) and my nephew Noah (18m). I (26f) have found my personality aligns better with Noah’s than Miley’s, but I still treat them equal for the most part. For example, when it was Miley’s sweet sixteen I got her a ...My parents weren't happy. Well, unfortunately, my sister 36 did not have this talk with her husband. When she was pregnant with their second child the doctor told them that the child would have many health issues. They prayed about it and went forward with the pregnancy. My niece is nine now. And my sister now has an ex-husband.AITA for not treating my niece kindly and not allowing her into her own home? Not the A-hole. My 21 year old niece recently started dating Jim (also 21). While everyone was happy for her at first, me and her parents noticed that my 14 year old nephew was really nervous around him. We managed to get the reason out of him and it was absolutely ...Pretty much, when my mom came to my room to talk to me about what I said, I'd already decided I was going to apologize, you guys made it clear I needed to do that much. She asked if I meant what I said about Ari being a better mom than her or if I just said it to hurt her. It is true I said it was because I was upset she doesn't want me to go ...I had to save money to leave my parents as well. I had a few hiding places. Inside my closet, I had an envelope duct-taped above the door. There was an envelope taped in an old math textbook I kept on the bottom of my bookshelf. I also kept a box of pads in my underwear drawer, and a couple were folded bills in clean pad wrappers.ADMIN MOD. AITA being pissed at what my wife said to our niece. Not the A-hole. My sister and bil were abusive parents to my niece, Charlotte. I always tried to protect her, but my wife and I were only able to get custody threw years ago. We adopted her, and she's a good kid at heart, but she still struggles a lot.😈 NEXT STORY - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4qCR1644UR0Z4S8QKTe0MYZFVaNXuAUY podcast reddit real estate, finance, investing, stocks, reddit storytime...AITA for refusing to lie to my niece? So bit of background, my brother has two children both under 10. Since the oldest was born I have been a constant support for both them and her. We have developed an amazing bond and I feel so blessed to call her my niece, this is now also the case with her younger sister.Oct 27, 2023 | 5:43 PM. ADVERTISING. "AITA for not inviting my parents to my wedding and anyone from that family?" Me (27) and my husband (28) are going to get married in …ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my niece about her mom's past? Not the A-hole. My (38F) sister, Lauren (42F), had a pretty wild youth. I did too, so no judgement on my part. When Lauren was 18, she got pregnant and chose to get an abortion. This was her wake up call. She went to college, later got a great job and found her husband.It's just begun to get hot in the UK, and I have booked a few days of Annual Leave to enjoy it. I decided to host a BBQ on an afternoon for the kids in our family. My niece and nephew (both aged 7) came over at around 2pm, and had been happily playing on the trampoline for the past couple hours. I've been playing a game with them where I ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for not babysitting my niece and nephew in a family emergency? Not the A-hole. There's obviously a backstory here. Six months ago, I watched my niece (5) and nephew (7) for five days while my sister and BIL were on vacation. They acted like absolute terrors most of the time. On the third day of them being at my house, we were ...I (42M) have a niece Lily (18F). Lily is the result of an affair my ex fiancee had with my brother while we were still together. I was led to believe Lily was mine throughout the entire pregnancy and almost signed her birth certificate before my ex confessed out of guilt that Lily was probably my brothers.Feb 15, 2024 · Feb 15, 2024 | 6:19 PM. ADVERTISING. 'AITA for leaving my niece an inheritance but not my nephew?' I was diagnosed with a terminal illness a few months ago. It’s not a matter of if, but when, and the best estimate is that I have in the neighborhood of 1-2 years. I’m dealing with it. I’ve had a good life and no regrets.HOWEVER, apparently, my cousin has this “very important piano recital” on my graduation day, and she absolutely wanted both my parents there along with HERS. I thought my parents would at least attend my college graduation, but nooooo. Apparently, their own niece’s piano recital is more important than their own daughter’s graduation. My ...At the House Antitrust Subcommittee hearings this afternoon, Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg was directly questioned about his company’s strategy of copying competitors’ apps and feat...The weekend before the birthday we had a family dinner at my parents house. SIL, my brother and niece were present. My parents were asking the girls if they were excited for their upcoming birthday's, and if they were having parties this year? My daughter told my parents she is having a Formula 1 themed party this year. SIL answered for my ...The 13 yo is from her previous relationship, the 5 yo from her current husband. My niece's father skipped out on them and my sister had a rough time of it, so I helped them out early on. Her husband is well off so they're set now, but it's become very obvious to me over the years that he wishes my niece weren't in their lives.AITA for not adopting my niece and nephews? Not the A-hole. I (27F) grew up being pretty close to my cousin (also 27F). Then in high school she got really into the drugs/party thing and ended up dropping out in her senior year. She eventually had my nephew "Evan" (now 8 ). I babysat a lot for her--I was attending college locally, so I was ...NTA - your niece sounds extremely spoilt. Her parents are clearly enabling her and honestly sound like they're extremely emotional if they get that upset just because somebody asked their daughter to use a different bathroom. They need to work on their own emotional maturity so they can parent their child better. 42.Talk to your parents. Tell them what you did, APOLOGIZE TO YOUR SISTER and tell her that you're bitter, jealous and full of shit. Ask your parents to arrange therapy for you as soon as possible, because holy shit you need it. Your parents did a good thing.ADMIN. AITA for threatening to tell my niece the truth about her father. Asshole. Hi all. I (31F) have recently got myself into hot water with my sister (34F) My sister's ex boyfriend and father of her 15 year old daughter was heavily involved with gangs and it ended up costing him his life. He wasn't much of a good person and I remember him ...Something like autism is like that but on an entirely different level. I wish the best for your entire family and that things settle down enough that things can be looked at more rationally so that your niece, and her parents can start to navigate what will be a very challenging time going forward. 7. eirly.My brother-in-law Jeremy and sister-in-law Violet did only the bare, law-required minimum in raising my niece Juliana yet spoiled my nephew William. Jeremy and Violet would praise William's accomplishments while ignoring or undermining Juliana's. Juliana was frequently blamed and punished over William's poor behavior.I don't even own my bed. I packed up my clothes and my laptop and I went to work like usual. I work out of town for 14 days then I get 7 days off. While I was at work I booked an all inclusive for my week off. It cost me less than rent and food at my parents house. I told my parents my plans and they were cool with it.Original-Leading-324. AITA For Telling My Niece The Family Secret? Not the A-hole. Throwaway Account. I (35f) had two older sisters growing up "Jane" and "Kim." Kim got sick and died but not before giving birth to my niece "Laura" (18f). It had been a year after Kim's passing when Jane and Laura's dad "Tom" (42m) confessed to dating and were ...r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.uncommonbreeddogmom. •. NTA. You need to get a lawyer to draft an official move out document with a 30 day date. Her parents are going to tell her to just stay and call your bluff because "FaMilY". Don't let her screw you and your kids over. Reply reply. KaleidoscopeOld3504. •.There will be other children at this party, around 20 of them ranging from 11 down to newborn. My nieces invited me, and then my sister changed dates, so it's no longer on my kid free weekend. She then contacted me saying "you will have to get a babysitter for those 2." My other children are invited (19/13/6yo).NTA. You are allowed to decide who you would like in your own house. No one else is OWED access or invitations to your house, especially their crotch spawn (and I say that as a parent with kids). The fact that their kids can't behave while at your house means that you are not comfortable having them at your house.I have one niece and nephew (same parents). When the firstborn was about two or three, I got an angry message from the mother (not my sister), yelling at me for not taking an interest in her daughter, pretty much saying that I'm obliged to, since we are family. She was right in that I didn't take an interest, because honestly, the girl bored me ...They go to the same school and when the bus comes, the daughter will not wake my niece up. My brother and girlfriend start work early in the morning. I will come over after my shift and take niece into school. The daughter made a terrible statement about how my niece doesn't have a mother figure in her life and will not share hers. It's ...Columbia University sent some 277 students they earned an acceptance—only to rescind the offer an hour later. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions f...OP's niece who he adopted and brought into his home asked to leave and go live with her Uncle. He didn't pawn her off, he obliged with her request. You are making OP out to be something he is not and making OP think he did a bad job. This niece was the one threatening and wanting to leave in order to hurt the OP.This was over 6 years when niece was just about to turn 4 and nephew was 2 and a half years ago. My sister just found out last week that I changed their names and is going crazy to family and online. I didn't think I was an asshole until our mutual aunt someone I respect said that I was an ass to complete erase my sister and BIL connection to ..."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.My brother and my SIL have been married for 6 years. I love them both dearly. They adopted a little girl about a year ago. My parents were happy about this too, at first. They got really angry when my brother and SIL announced recently that their daughter would be their only child and they do not want biological kids. My mom and dad lost their ...This happened to me, but my parents were very clear that it was their intention to “fix me” from the start. Unsurprisingly, they sent me to therapists who saw me as a juvenile delinquent and would (illegally) report back to my parents about our sessions. Gross. Anyway I’m no contact with one of them now and it’s for the better.When my niece was 10 months old she was placed in my parents care (Child Protection removed her from her mother) and at a bit over a year old Child Protection informed my parents and brother that niece and her siblings were all requiring DNA testing as the mother had listed 2-3 men as "possible fathers" for 3 out of 4 of her kids (eldest ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel like an asshole because honestly I was just joking and it was just a playful dig but I think I stepped into it and shouldn't have been joking about this at all.I invited my niece, my sister and my brother-in-law to my wedding but not the nanny. My sister is really mad about it. The reason I didn't invite the nanny is because of cost. My sister and brother-in-law are lawyers and they work at 2 of the biggest law firms in the entire country. They both made $200,000 right out of law school.NTA. Your niece is so entitled. She expects you to host her wedding without even asking you first before telling everyone and then expects you to give up your whole house for it. Then expects whoever owns the land near you to just let her use without even asking.ETA: Yes, this is a normal expense for parents BUT lower cost camps fill up FAST (our rec center camp is $200ish/wk per kid and fills up within a week of opening registration). If I had to last minute change summer plans at this point, I would be be spending closer to $350/wk per kid for full day camp.AITA for forcing my niece. AITA for forcing my niece to spend this christmas with her parents? I saw this on AITA, and that parent needs smacked with a broken iPad upside the head. Imagine going out of your way to show this teen that she's not really part of the family, and not wanted.When you die, your estate has to go through probate, which means that your creditors and other interested parties can make claims on assets that you planned to leave your nieces an...My SIL approached me at the beginning of the summer and asked if I would let my niece (F11) help out in the bakery over the school break. She has been getting really into baking and loves watching content creators baking and was apparently just dying to be able to job shadow/help out in a bakery. I was hesitant, but said yes. And I hated it.He tried to plead by saying “they’re just kids let them have fun” but I was having none of it. A few days after, I got an apology text from niece followed by an ask for the gift again. I said that I felt very disrespected and I didn’t want to give …MOD. Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Not the A-hole. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if ...Many will suggest things like ADHD, sensory integration, oppositional defiance, perfectionism, Autism and more. Sometimes they are right, sometimes they are not. My response is the same in both situations. It goes something like this: I ask parents to spend the next week or two observing their child.Turn around and firmly but calmly tell her, that your niece and nephew are in your care and they are your responsibility, so therefore by her wording your not responsible for your nephew, her son, so she can pay for her son to have a tutor if she really wants him to have access to one. 1. GothPenguin.They also knew that it wasn’t my job to be an extension of his parents. I was babysitting him and that needed to be fun for both of us. My point is, it is her job is to raise a kid who understands the rules she sets, and understand that sometimes rules can be relaxed. You bribed her with ice cream one time. Big deal.Not the A-hole. I (20m) has two younger siblings, "Joe" and "Jill". They're twins, both 18 and graduating high school this year. Jill is my parent's favorite, because they've always wanted a daughter, while Joe is their scapegoat, because I guess he's the bonus baby they never actually asked for. I'm mostly better off than Joe, as I'm the ...My niece and nephew are 1 and 4 years old. I struggle to interact with them, I just freeze up and can't really say anything. I'm generally like this with everyone, people have to initiate conversation with me first for me to respond and in these situations I can mask okay, but not for long periods of time.Hey im 27m male and my Sister is 36w. Me and her taking care of my niece from one of my brothers and she's doing not so good. She has psychological problems and don't wanna go to a therapist anymore. Her father is a man who's just interested in himself. My brothers wife died because of a health condition called "cystic fibrosis".Every alternate days, my niece would be sleeping downstairs on the sofa bed in my study space with my helper at night, which I have to be quiet and have to do my stuff in the dark. Because her parents have to work, she's downstairs (from 7:30 am) Monday to Friday all day. Her afternoon nap is in the room I share with my grandma.The post Thieving parents spend teen's hard-earned cash on present for sibling in infuriating story appeared first on HITC. A child or kid reaching for money in his back pocket. (Getty)© HITC. A ...00:00 Intro00:04 AITA for not marrying the girl I'm supposed to be and causing major problems for my family?3:45 AITA for not wanting my parents to adopt ano...AITA not letting my parents babysit anymore. Not the A-hole. My wife and I have two daughters, Julia (5) and Alina (17 months). I've always been close to my family, and my parents are really involved with my daughters. They've regularly babysat Julia since she was around 1, and then Alina too. Currently it's two or three times a week.ADMIN MOD. AITA for not taking in my son and his family. Not the A-hole. My ex wife and I adopted our son when he was six. We had been his foster parents for three years and we wanted to make it official. He met his wife when he was 18. She knew he was adopted and she thought it would be good for him to get to know his biological parents.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my niece about her mom's past? Not the A-hole. My (38F) sister, Lauren (42F), had a pretty wild youth. I did too, so no judgement on my part. When Lauren was 18, she got pregnant and chose to get an abortion. This was her wake up call. She went to college, later got a great job and found her husband.Yesterday was my niece's first birthday and originally the plan for the cake was for my father-in-law to buy a store-bought cake. When my father-in-law mentioned he was buying a store-bought cake for the party I asked if I could bake the birthday cake and smash cake instead. My father-in-law was thrilled at the idea and requested that it be a ...Seriously. Without your dad being present. Please talk to your school counselor or a teacher who you trust. Your school should have a counselor who you can talk to privately every week or so. Ask your dad to set up a therapist for you and be sure to tell the therapist that you want privacy in your sessions.ADMIN. AITA for choosing my niece and nephew who I barely know over my fiancee. No A-holes here. So backstory. My parents died when me (27) and my sister (37) were 15 and 25. My sister became my legal guardian until I was 18. We became very close after our parents death we had very little other family mmbers and the one we did have lived far ...Exactly. My grandparents paid for me and my sister and our parents to go to Disney when we were about 6/8 years old. My parents had to save up all our spending money for well over a year and even as kids we were taught to save up pocket money to take with us. We knew Disney wasn't cheap and it was a huge deal for someone to pay for us.AITA for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left? “I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean.As we walked toward the sanctuary, I could feel my stomach churning and beads of sweat forming in my armpits. My daughter Gabby was wearing a fabulous dress we picked out with her ...For taking my niece away from her birth family, and admitting to favoring her over her twin sister. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements. Follow the link above to learn moreMy brothers had their first children at 20 and 21, I thought it was ridiculously young and while I may joke to my niece about how we were mistakes (I also wasn't planned, there's a very large age gap between my siblings and I). I would never say something like that to my brothers because their children made our lives better."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.ADMIN MOD. AITA for not babysitting my niece and nephew in a family emergency? Not the A-hole. There's obviously a backstory here. Six months ago, I watched my niece (5) and nephew (7) for five days while my sister and BIL were on vacation. They acted like absolute terrors most of the time. On the third day of them being at my house, we were ...AITA Post: September 5, 2023 (5 weeks later) ... Long story short we found out (by my dad's own admission) that my parents had been giving my little gluten bc I "want them to be like me and be sick" (eye roll) and "if you take a food away for a long time that's how people develop allergies" (eye roll). We did a time out so I could ...My (34f) sister (31f) was the first among four siblings to have a kid (5f). My niece is incredibly spoiled by my sister, our parents and extended family, and my parents bend over backwards for my sister's requests (like canceling their anniversary trip because my sister asked to babysit while she goes on a girls' weekend).He's got a job, and his finances aren't your business much le, My parents said they did some thinking and they are willing to let her, ADMIN MOD. 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